Step Off The Yo-Yo Diet Train

 

 

We all know people who keep losing and gaining the same 20, 30 or more pounds.  Maybe this is you.  It’s called yo-yo dieting.  It happens because we go on and off diets, and then back to our old eating habits.  But those old eating habits are what caused us to gain the weight in the first place.  We get caught in a vicious circle with no way out.

Or so it seems.

Losing weight is not complicated.  It looks that way because of all the conflicting advice out there.  Should you go on a low carb diet, or should you fast?  Should you juice?  What about fats and sugar?  Most people who push one diet or another do so because they have something to sell.  Some of kind of miracle weight loss product or weight loss program that they claim is designed to melt the pounds off.  The truth is, you don’t need any complex program or magic pill or potion.  Or any specialized diet plan.

You just need to learn to eat intuitively.

The biggest problem with going on a diet is what happens when you come back off again.  While we diet, we tend to eat a certain way.  We cut out sugar and we eat a lot of salads and vegetables.  Which isn’t a bad thing.   The problem is most of the foods we place on the “bad” list are the things we most love to eat.  It would be next to impossible to cut out those things forever.  And it would drive us crazy to even try.  We will develop cravings for those food items and sooner or later we’ll cave to the crave and start binging on them.

But why go on a diet at all when a simple lifestyle change allows you to eat the food you love and still lose weight?  Portion control and calorie awareness are all you really need.  I’ve lost a total of 70 pounds and I didn’t have to give up a single thing.

We have this tendency to see things in black and white.  When we go on a diet, we put labels on food items.

This food is bad, I should avoid.

This food is good, I should eat all the time.

The reality is there’s no food item so bad that we can’t have it from time to time.  Obviously, there are some things we should eat more of; some items we should eat less off.  But, again, there is no food item so bad that we can’t eat it from time to time.  As long as it’s eaten in moderation.

And there’s the key.

Moderation.

This is where calorie awareness comes in.  There are so many apps out there designed to help you track your calorie intake.  My app of choice is MyFitnessPal.  Using this app was a game changer for me.  It has played a big part in my weight loss.

I know you’re rolling your eyes right now.  I also know what you’re thinking.  I don’t want to spend the rest of my life counting calories.  I don’t want to be that obsessive.

I get it.  But I also believe that calorie awareness is the key to not only losing weight with less effort, but also to keeping it off.  Most people have no idea how many calories they’re supposed to eat each day to lose weight, or to maintain a healthy weight.

More importantly, most people have no idea how many calories they actually are eating on a daily basis.  I’m sure the vast majority are seriously underestimating how many calories they are consuming.  Especially when it comes to eating out.  MyFitnessPal has a food database with tens of thousands of food items on it, listing their calorie content as well as how many carbs, proteins and sugar.  It even lists most of the chain restaurants and coffee shops like Starbucks and Dunkin Donuts.  Just tracking your calories for a six week period will give you a greater awareness of your calorie intake and give you the tools to lose weight or to maintain your weight.  You certainly don’t need to count calories forever.

Using an app like MyFitnessPal you can give up giving up your favorite foods.  You can step off the yo-yo diet train and face your future with confidence that you can maintain a healthy weight for life.

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Be Kind To Yourself

Can I just give this piece of advice to anyone who’s looking to lose weight?

Be kind to yourself!

This weight loss journey is HARD.  If it was easy there wouldn’t be anyone overweight.  It takes time.  It takes patience.  It takes determination.

You won’t always get it right.  Every day brings new temptations to frustrate and derail you.  Friends will invite you out.  There will be parties, celebrations.  Enjoy them.  Then get back to the grind the next day.

You won’t always get it right.  But if you get it right more days than you don’t, then you will get where you want to be.

Stop beating yourself up.  It’s a marathon, not a sprint.  One bad day will not derail you.  Unless you let it.  Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back on that horse.  One binge is not the end of your story.  One donut, one cookie, one piece of cake will not undo all the success you have had so far.  Unless you allow it to.

People have a habit of saying “I’ll believe it when I see it.”

No.

Believe it and then you will see it.  It’s all about MINDSET.  If you go in there not really believing you can do it, then at your first slip up you will throw in the towel.  Out will come the excuses.  “I knew I wasn’t strong enough.”

But if you go in with determination, with belief, with a will to win, you will see that first slip up for all it is.  A slip up.  You won’t use it as an excuse to quit.

Change your mind, change your life.